The man is the blue sky, the sun is your wife, the moon is your lover, and the stars are your confidants. In this world, what a man needs most, besides a wife, seems to be a lover and confidant. What about women? It seems that a woman does not need anything. She only wants a home and her husband’s love is everything to her. In a woman’s ideal, a man is her harbor, the tree she can rely on, and everything she has. In a man’s desire, a woman is the bridge he walks on, the road he steps on, and the little things he steps on. This is the loveliness of men and the infatuation of women.
A man’s flirting is romantic, a woman’s flirting is obscene. Men are passionate when they are flirtatious, and women are affectionate when they are flirtatious. Men’s love is romantic, women’s love is dissolute. Men’s love is philanthropy, women’s love is promiscuity. Under the cover of various high-sounding reasons and neutral nouns, men spend money rationally and confidently. From the groups of wives and concubines in ancient times, to the “fluttering colorful flags” today. The men ate from their bowls one by one and looked at the pot. It is difficult for women to move forward in the face of various derogatory terms. If they are not careful, they will fall into the quagmire of moral corruption. The sky of history and the soil of reality have given relaxation and tolerance to men’s philandering.
In this materialistic era, men’s philandering is being pampered bit by bit. Those who are rich and powerful play in the golden house to hide girls and keep mistresses; those who have little money and power are looking for extramarital affairs and one-night stands. Lover is no longer synonymous with love; playfulness, aboveboard, has become a symbol of identity and status. So many women face the fate of being abandoned, and they realize that if they love a man for a lifetime, when the man has rights and status, a young and beautiful woman will appear. Women always complain that men are flirtatious, but actually it is human nature to be flirtatious. As Xu Zhimo said: “We dare not deny that human beings are the soul of all things, but we can conclude that human beings are the lust of all things.” The loveliness of men and women is a natural nature given to animals by nature, and liking the new and hating the old is also the behavior of advanced animals. nature. Since it is a natural nature, it is common, and there should be no distinction between men and women, male and female. So, why can’t women take care of themselves? Women should not blame men for being carefree. If they want to complain, blame themselves for not being carefree.
To be a good woman who is playful, you must have the same temperament as a flower. Give yourself a smile every day, give yourself a good mood, and you will look as young in the mirror. Give others a kind smile, even if it is not a smile like a flower, it can still leave a feeling of warmth.
To be a good woman with a flower heart, you must have the same spirit as a flower. Having a good mentality, absorbing nutrients from books and life, and enriching yourself with rich connotations and profound cultural heritage are not only pleasing to the eye, but also pleasing to the heart. Even if it can’t turn all sentient beings upside down, it still has its own unique style. A good woman who is flirtatious is smart, and she knows how to win a man’s heart. She is independent and knows that she cannot rely on one man for everything. She is sensible and understands that when it comes to relationships between men and women, “it’s all about emotion and nothingness is about etiquette.” A good woman who is flirtatious is even more attractive and can swim freely in the ocean of love and marriage.
A smart woman, instead of complaining about a man’s playfulness, is better to be a playboy herself. In the “playfulness”, she should be sentimental but not sentimental, romantic but not obscene, romantic but not dissolute, and philanthropic but not promiscuous. Use the standards of a good philandering woman to demand of yourself, improve yourself, maintain your authenticity, and be an exquisite philandering woman, then you no longer have to worry about men being philandering. It’s not bad for women to be flirtatious, isn’t it?